What has your shyness cost you so far?

Opportunities? Recognition? Money? Confidence? Joy?

Work WITH your shyness and unlock your full potential with the Shy and Mighty Society.

Overcome the aspects of your shyness which are holding you back

Gives you the confidence to step out of the shadows and live a bigger life

Feel confident sharing your ideas and skills with the world

Maximise your visibility so you get the recognition you deserve

 

The Shy and Mighty Society is a squad of shy people committed to achieving success in a way that feels good and works with their shyness.

 

Finally, coaching support tailor made for shy people, from a shy person (me!)

The Shy and Mighty Society is an online confidence-coaching club for shy people, designed specifically to help you step out of the shadows and overcome the blocks, resistance and fears which are holding you back.

Whether you want to land your dream job, get promoted, be recognised for your work, grow your business, or simply speak up and share your ideas; the Shy and Mighty Society is here to help you shine. 

Get the help you need to achieve your goals without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.

 

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You want a bigger life and you know that in order to make it happen, you have to speak up, even just a little. But the idea of being “visible” and “out there” makes you feel self-conscious, uncomfortable, and awkward.

So…you hide.

Talking in front of people, sharing your ideas, networking, important conversations, performing, job interviews, pitches, presentations, meetings…they all scare you to bits.

What’s worse is that your shyness is holding you back in so many areas of your life.

Whether you’re at work, at school, running a business, or even doing a sport, so much emphasis is placed on “raising your profile” and self-promotion. Yikes!

Part of you actually wants to be noticed and get the recognition you deserve. But, the bigger part of you would rather stay hidden behind the scenes than have people look at you. You worry about being judged, not being good enough – all the things!

Everywhere you turn, you see other people who are absolutely nailing the whole visibility and self-promotion game. They’re not afraid to speak up – loudly, proudly and confidently sharing their talents and telling the world what they have to offer.

You try telling yourself to get a grip.
You try pushing yourself to be braver.
You make lists and plans and mantras.

But it doesn’t work. At all!
You just keep on getting stuck, sometimes literally.

You feel like you have rubber bands constricting around your chest.
You know you’re procrastinating but you can’t seem to help it.
And, as for the speaking up… the words just don’t come out!

So you try some more…

You read inspirational quotes.
You buy books – some of which are so cheesy you could eat them with crackers.
You listen to podcasts with people shouting at you to BE MORE CONFIDENT. (As if it were that easy!).
You then shift to coaches who promise they can help FIX you in as little as 3 months and for one easy payment of $10,000.

Fix you?! How rude!

Nothing seems to work. It’s so frustrating!

And so you just sit there.

Wondering: how do all these people do this?

The ones with who seem to effortlessly put themselves out there. The ones who seem to attract all the exciting opportunities. The ones who seem destined for big things.

Pondering: how can I get over my fears so I can get on with achieving my full potential?

Grappling: with the possibility that this might never happen for you

Puzzling: what else you can do to get things moving …

Doubting: if you will ever have the same kind of confidence that others have, if you will EVER be the one to get the kind of recognition you deserve.

And all you see around you are other people who seemingly ooze confidence from every orifice.

People who have supposedly battled their fears, and yet somehow they seem like they’ve never had a doubt their whole lives.
People who are living their best lives, while you feel like you’re living a shadow of yours.

Nothing you’ve tried so far has worked for very long.

‘Stop holding yourself back’

‘Get out of your own way’

‘Speak your truth’

‘Stand up and be seen’

You can muster the courage to do these things once in a while, but it’s not sustainable.

You need a different approach.

A way of living that releases you from:

The self consciousness holding you back from success

The constant battle to overcome your fears

The urge to hide from this very loud and noisy world

 

I created the Shy and Mighty Society to help you step out of the shadows and overcome your shyness so you can be more visible, share your ideas with the world and achieve your goals without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.

Shy can be Mighty. I’m here to help you get there. I’m Nadia Finer and I’m on a softly-spoken mission to help shy people be more mighty.

I know what it’s like to struggle with shyness.

For me, my shyness started because of my little voice – literally. I have a small voice that makes people mistake me for a kid when they ring me on the phone.

Sounding like a little kid has made me very self-conscious. But, rather than hide behind my insecurity, I figured out how to embrace my little voice, push past my fears, and tap into my hidden strengths.

As a result of embracing this thing that could have held me back, I’ve built a career as a successful business coach, author, podcaster, and international speaker.

I’m also possibly the least likely boxer ever to step foot into the ring!

But it hasn’t been a smooth journey. Over the past 12 years of building my business, I’ve struggled with my shyness – just like you!

Nadia Finer Shy and Mighty speaker
I’ve shied away from promoting and marketing my work. I’ve compared myself to others and felt like I’m not nearly good enough. I’ve worried about being judged. I’ve questioned my worth and seriously under-charged! I’ve kept quiet when I had something important to say. I’ve said “no” to great opportunities because I was afraid. I’ve avoiding sharing my ideas. I’ve avoided pushing myself forward. I’ve felt like I wasn’t cut out for success. I even stayed in a toxic business partnership far too long because I was more comfortable hiding in the background.
It was only when I realised that my shyness and my little voice are part of who I am that I was able to create a vision of success that works for me.
It was only when I realised that my shyness and my little voice are part of who I am that I was able to create a vision of success that works for me.

I’ve discovered two truths:

1.

Being yourself is the only way to succeed in life.

2.

The only person who can get in the way of your success is YOU.

Imagine

You’re confident sharing your ideas.

When you speak, people listen – with anticipation!

You say “YES!” to opportunities that would have terrified you before.

You stand up for what you believe.

You feel valued, respected, and appreciated.

You have the tools and techniques to navigate situations that would have previously stumped you.

You know your strengths and are excited to build on them.

You no longer feel like you have to be like other people – you can be yourself and still do big things!

In fact, those big goals (and the things you have to do to make them a reality) don’t even phase you anymore! You know it’s just a matter of taking it one step at a time.   Instead of being held back by limiting beliefs, you’re making conscious steps forward.

Above all you’re free. Free from stress and fear.

Free from limiting decisions.  

Free to achieve big things.  

Free to be yourself.   

Free to pursue your vision of success.

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That’s why I’m not here to lecture you, boss you around, patronise you, or force you to do things that you’re uncomfortable with.

I know that you need gentle support and encouragement to coax you out of the shadows and towards your goals.

Recently, I was invited to give a talk to hundreds of teenage girls at a big conference. The topic: my journey from little voice to big impact.   In that moment, I realised that sharing my story could help a lot of people. What’s more, people don’t often hear the big stories shy people have because we’re usually off somewhere hiding!

I realised that if I could bring myself to talk to hundreds of teenage girls… then I should take my mission a step further.

So, I created Shy and Mighty to help shy people of all ages overcome their self-consciousness and self-doubt and to give them the courage to share their ideas and talents so that they can achieve big things in their own unique way.

I know what you’re thinking ….

Whatever she’s on about … it won’t work for me because I am too shy, I’m too stuck and I just can’t do it.

If it was that simple, everyone would be confident.

How is this different from any of those courses and programs I’ve seen online?

Nadia Finer Shycologist

“I love being part of the Shy and Mighty Society because it’s a safe and friendly network of like-minded people who share in the struggle of ‘putting yourself out there’. I have received great advice and fantastic support which has enabled me to gradually step out of my comfort zone little by little. I’ve learnt a lot about myself through activity sheets, goal setting exercises, creating plans, regular journaling and the brilliant coaching calls. Nadia is so supportive and motivating – she makes you feel like you can achieve anything!

When I first joined, I was hiding away from the world and letting opportunities pass me by. Even though this felt safe it left me feeling unfulfilled and that I wasn’t reaching my full potential. As someone who has always been on the quieter side, especially in groups, I found that I was becoming ashamed of my shyness and longed to be different.

Now I’ve realised that although I may sometimes be quieter than other people, I’m actually ok with it, I still have a lot to offer and there can even be positive sides to being a quieter person. I now feel that I ‘own’ my shyness and am more willing to work with it rather than trying to get rid of it. By taking baby steps and setting realistic goals I’ve been able to take positive action and become more involved with things that I enjoy.

If you’re a shy person and you feel it’s holding you back, I would recommend joining the Shy and Mighty Society so that you too can learn that being shy doesn’t mean that you can’t be successful. It’s an opportunity to be part of a supportive environment and a place to pick up loads of tips and tools to help manage those times when you feel that your shyness is holding you back from being your best self.” 

Lisa Sharp

Member of the Shy and Mighty Society

Let me show you why this is unlike anything you have seen before

A safe space for shy people to shine

The Shy and Mighty Society is a supportive community of shy people on a shared mission – to reach their full potential. 

Make quiet connections with fellow shy people and get the support and encouragement you need to embrace who you really are, move forward on your goals, and embrace the mighty side of you.

Get reassurance and a virtual high-five when you do something scary – like speak up in a meeting, have an awkward conversation, or even publish a video.

Know that you’re not alone and we’re all building up courage together, in ways big and small.

Practical tools and advice to help you become shy and mighty

Learn specific techniques to help deal with shyness and improve confidence in situations that make you feel uncomfortable, such as networking, presenting, public speaking, sharing your ideas, podcasting, making videos, and self-promotion.

Adopt mindset tools to help you go from constantly limiting yourself because of self-doubt to being more confident and resilient.  

Success coaching from someone who gets it

I’ve spent the past 12 years coaching hundreds of entrepreneurs as they start and grow their businesses.

I’ve noticed that the biggest challenge my clients face isn’t money or resources – it’s their own minds. They are riddled with what I call mindset monsters – fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs that do nothing but hold them back from their dreams.

In our group coaching sessions I will be on hand to answer your questions, coach you through challenging situations and support you as you take little steps towards becoming a braver, more mighty, you.

Designed by a shy person for shy people

I also know what it’s like to be a shy person in a world that seems to reward people just for being loud and confident.  

I structured The Shy and Mighty Society in a way that works for shy people.

No more hiding in the depths of massive groups, too scared to say anything.

We meet up in a completely private, safe online space where you can share ideas, experiences, and fears away from prying eyes.

The group vibe is friendly, upbeat, and welcoming. Bossiness is not tolerated!

There’s an emphasis on self-discovery, action and positivity.

This is not a pity party!  Our group coaching sessions take place twice a month and provide you with the ongoing support and advice you need to move closer to your goals.

These sessions take place via zoom, so you can see me, but don’t worry, you are not required to be “on camera.” Questions can be submitted in advance too, and there’s always a chat box, so that you are not under pressure to talk live, if you don’t want to.

Unlike many other group programs, I am present in the group holding your hand every step of the way. 

Shycology

The Shy and Mighty Society follows my super simple, six-step Shycology system to help you step out of the shadows and overcome your shyness so you can achieve the big success you’re dreaming of, without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.

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“Nadia is the epitome of shy and mighty.  She walks her talk and understands the complexities of being shy and a naturally introvert.  Nadia also shines a different light on the “quiet ones” and is able to reframe shyness. This has enabled me to stop using it to self-berate and mentally beat myself up. 

The ones who talk the loudest aren’t always right – and although we’re quiet, we’re not dumb – we’re taking it all in and mentally working out solutions and considering various scenarios so that when we do speak-up it’s of value.  Nadia has enabled me to see this as the shy-persons superpower.

She gently nudges and reframes things such as changing being “visible” (which is such a loaded word and feels like being shoved on stage at Wembley Arena expected to “perform”) into “showing-up”, much less scary and showing-up can be as small or big as I’m ready for.

Nadia is compassionate and passionate about how the “quiet ones” can make a big impact on the world – one conversation, email, blog post at a time.  She is mighty in her passion for helping others – and she has enabled me to focus on my desire to help others and use that as my focus when “showing-up”. I’m not competing with the loud-ones, my style is just as valid, and in some ways, very much needed by those who find the loud-ones scary!

The more I show-up in the Shy and Mighty Society, the more I gain (or should I say the mightier I become).  Nadia will notice when you’re hiding – and just give that nudge for you to come out from your hiding place.

It really is a safe place for the shy-ones to meet and support each other and have those face-palm moments knowing that the other members totally get where you’re coming from. No fan-fair entrance required, just come in and take a seat.”

Corrina Jelleyman

Member of the Shy and Mighty Society

How will my life change?

No more lurking in the shadows of your potential.
No more allowing your fears and worries to control you.
No more sitting on the outside watching other people shine.

From the moment you join the Shy and Mighty Society you’re going to start taking little steps forward in your own way, until you are:

  • braver and more confident
  • more comfortable in your own skin
  • being seen and heard
  • able to enjoy social situations more
  • saying yes to exciting opportunities
  • enjoying a richer range of experiences
  • able to articulate what you want and need
  • able to stand up for yourself
  • getting the recognition you deserve
  • having more fun
  • show up as yourself instead of trying to be someone else
  • living at the centre of your life, instead of the periphery
  • achieving your own version of success

Joining the Shy and Mighty Society will give you:

  • Advice and support from an experienced shyness coach
  • Reassurance and encouragement from people who can relate to your struggle
  • Encouragement to keep moving forward
  • Useful tools to help you handle uncomfortable situations
  • Motivation and support to share ideas
  • Help achieving success in your own quiet way

What’s included?

When you become a member of The Shy and Mighty Society, you will receive:

Coaching

Weekly group coaching sessions – giving you all the support, encouragement and advice you need to overcome the aspects of your shyness which are holding you back… and helping you take steps forward bit by bit, towards your goals.

I’m also present to answer your questions and cheer you on in our Facebook group and provide you with advice, accountability and support.

Co-Working and Accountability

Weekly co-working sessions to help you stay accountable and get your mighty work done. We meet up once a week in our virtual co-working space to focus and do the work!

Imagine…. finally sitting down and working on your social media content/  book proposal / pitch document / presentation. No more procrastinating! Imagine getting that scary thing sorted, because you knew you weren’t alone. Imagine setting some time aside to think, and process and plan. Imagine harnessing the energy and mightiness of the society to help you finish things off! Imagine the possibilities!

Community

Access to a safe space online where you can connect with fellow shy people who will encourage and motivate you to get stuff done.

“Nadia is so supportive and positive and really does have an amazing way of helping you through your problems without making you feel overwhelmed or scared of what you need to do, but rather excited about what you can achieve!”   Claire

“Nadia has something unique that I dare say is not seen enough in the worlds of coaching: humility. Along with that beautiful virtue, her no nonsense practicality coupled with savvy know-how skills and smart strategy, make her the most lovely combo to work with. Don’t let the little voice thing fool you, she’s one kick ass coach that isn’t afraid to be herself and help you claim your place in your business and creations! I just love her, what else do you need to know?!”   Michelle Wirta

“I can almost see light at the end of the tunnel already, Nadia! It’s early days, but my mindset is changing quickly. And that’s where it starts. Right?”  Carol Ann  

“Thank you for everything that you do. Just knowing that you’re my coach makes me feel confident that I can reach my goals.”   Nina Simone

“Nadia is so supportive and positive and really does have an amazing way of helping you through your problems without making you feel overwhelmed or scared of what you need to do, but rather excited about what you can achieve!”   Claire

“Nadia has something unique that I dare say is not seen enough in the worlds of coaching: humility. Along with that beautiful virtue, her no nonsense practicality coupled with savvy know-how skills and smart strategy, make her the most lovely combo to work with. Don’t let the little voice thing fool you, she’s one kick ass coach that isn’t afraid to be herself and help you claim your place in your business and creations! I just love her, what else do you need to know?!”   Michelle Wirta

“I can almost see light at the end of the tunnel already, Nadia! It’s early days, but my mindset is changing quickly. And that’s where it starts. Right?”  Carol Ann  

“Thank you for everything that you do. Just knowing that you’re my coach makes me feel confident that I can reach my goals.”   Nina Simone

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More questions?

If you have any questions that haven’t been answered above, please email nadia@nadiafiner.com

You’re right for the Shy and Mighty Society if…

o   You’re a shy person at any stage of your life or work

o   You’re up for supporting and encouraging others who struggle with shyness

o   You’re ready to take a positive can-do approach

o   You’re open to learning new things

o   You’re ready to do the work!

“I’ve worked with Nadia both on a one-on-one basis and within the group setting of her lovely Shy and Mighty Society. Nadia is truly amazing and continues to inspire me on a daily basis. She is proof that you don’t have to be an extrovert to be a successful entrepreneur. Nadia has taught me to leverage the parts in me that I used to think needed fixing and to fully step into the person I am.
Signing up for the Shy and Mighty Society is the best thing I could have done for myself and my business. The weekly group coaching sessions alone are incredibly valuable. Nadia won’t let you off the hook but her nudges are always gentle and just enough to push you beyond your comfort zone, so you can take the next best step to move your life and business forward. Nadia’s expertise combined with her wonderful sense of humour make working with her such a joy. She’s also an excellent brainstormer – always resourceful and innovative. Nadia truly cares about her clients and I can’t recommend her highly enough.”
Lisa Ross

Member of the Shy and Mighty Society

Burning Questions

How long does the membership last?
Membership continues on a monthly basis until you cancel.
How does it differ from other programs or memberships?
Shy and Mighty is the only coaching program and online community designed by a shy person specifically to help shy people achieve big success in their life and work.
What’s included in the membership?

Membership includes weekly live group coaching sessions held on Zoom and ongoing support from me, Nadia, in our private Facebook group. You will also have access to a community of fellow shy and mighty peeps – who will cheer you on. As well as tools and tips and activities to help you become more mighty.

Will you be there to answer my questions?

Yes! I’ll host all our group coaching sessions and open-door sessions live. Outside those times, I’ll answer your questions, but it may take me a little longer to get back to you.

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