What has your shyness cost you so far?
Opportunities? Recognition? Money? Confidence? Joy?
Work WITH your shyness and unlock your full potential with the Shy and Mighty Society.
Overcome the aspects of your shyness which are holding you back
Gives you the confidence to step out of the shadows and live a bigger life
Feel confident sharing your ideas and skills with the world
Stop being overlooked and get the recognition you deserve
The Shy and Mighty Society is a squad of shy people committed to achieving success in a way that feels good and works with their shyness.
Finally, coaching support tailor-made for shy people, from a shy person (me!)
The Shy and Mighty Society is an online coaching club for shy people, designed specifically to help you step out of the shadows and overcome the blocks, resistance and fears which are holding you back.
Whether you want to land your dream job, get promoted, be recognised for your work, grow your business, or simply speak up and share your ideas; the Shy and Mighty Society is here to help you shine.
Get the help you need to achieve your goals without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.
JOIN THE SHY AND MIGHTY SOCIETY
Just £29.99 per month
Weekly live group coaching calls with Nadia – over zoom to keep you motivated and on track
Online program and app with weekly workbooks designed to help you be more mighty
Weekly virtual co-working sessions help you focus, stay accountable and stop procrastinating!
Make friends with other shy people who are also on a journey to mightiness in our Facebook group
You want a bigger life and you know that in order to make it happen, you have to speak up, even just a little. But the idea of being “visible” and “out there” makes you feel self-conscious, uncomfortable, and awkward.
So…you hide.
Talking in front of people, sharing your ideas, networking, important conversations, performing, job interviews, pitches, presentations, meetings…they all scare you to bits.
What’s worse is that your shyness is holding you back in so many areas of your life.
Whether you’re at work, at school, running a business, or even doing a sport, so much emphasis is placed on “raising your profile” and self-promotion. Yikes!
Part of you actually wants to be noticed and get the recognition you deserve. But, the bigger part of you would rather stay hidden behind the scenes than have people look at you. You worry about being judged, not being good enough – all the things!
Everywhere you turn, you see other people who are absolutely nailing the whole visibility and self-promotion game. They’re not afraid to speak up – loudly, proudly and confidently sharing their talents and telling the world what they have to offer.
You try telling yourself to get a grip.
You try pushing yourself to be braver.
You make lists and plans and mantras.
But it doesn’t work. At all!
You just keep on getting stuck, sometimes literally.
You feel like you have rubber bands constricting around your chest.
You know you’re procrastinating but you can’t seem to help it.
And, as for the speaking up… the words just don’t come out!
So you try some more…
You read inspirational quotes.
You buy books – some of which are so cheesy you could eat them with crackers.
You listen to podcasts with people shouting at you to BE MORE CONFIDENT. (As if it were that easy!).
You then shift to coaches who promise they can help FIX you in as little as 3 months and for one easy payment of $10,000.
Fix you?! How rude!
Nothing seems to work. It’s so frustrating!
And so you just sit there.
Wondering: how do all these people do this?
The ones with who seem to effortlessly put themselves out there. The ones who seem to attract all the exciting opportunities. The ones who seem destined for big things.
Pondering: how can I get over my fears so I can get on with achieving my full potential?
Grappling: with the possibility that this might never happen for you
Puzzling: what else you can do to get things moving …
Doubting: if you will ever have the same kind of confidence that others have, if you will EVER be the one to get the kind of recognition you deserve.
And all you see around you are other people who seemingly ooze confidence from every orifice.
People who have supposedly battled their fears, and yet somehow they seem like they’ve never had a doubt their whole lives.
People who are living their best lives, while you feel like you’re living a shadow of yours.
Nothing you’ve tried so far has worked for very long.
‘Stop holding yourself back’
‘Get out of your own way’
‘Speak your truth’
‘Stand up and be seen’
You can muster the courage to do these things once in a while, but it’s not sustainable.
You need a different approach.
A way of living that releases you from:
The self consciousness holding you back from success
The constant battle to overcome your fears
The urge to hide from this very loud and noisy world
I created the Shy and Mighty Society to help you step out of the shadows and overcome your shyness so you can be more visible, share your ideas with the world and achieve your goals without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.
Shy can be Mighty. I’m here to help you get there. I’m Nadia Finer and I’m on a softly-spoken mission to help shy people be more mighty.
I know what it’s like to struggle with shyness.
For me, my shyness started because of my little voice – literally. I have a small voice that makes people mistake me for a kid when they ring me on the phone.
Sounding like a little kid has made me very self-conscious. But, rather than hide behind my insecurity, I figured out how to embrace my little voice, push past my fears, and tap into my hidden strengths.
As a result of embracing this thing that could have held me back, I’ve built a career as a successful business coach, author, podcaster, and international speaker.
I’m also possibly the least likely boxer ever to step foot into the ring!
But it hasn’t been a smooth journey. Over the past 12 years of building my business, I’ve struggled with my shyness – just like you!
I’ve shied away from promoting and marketing my work. I’ve compared myself to others and felt like I’m not nearly good enough. I’ve worried about being judged. I’ve questioned my worth and seriously under-charged! I’ve kept quiet when I had something important to say. I’ve said “no” to great opportunities because I was afraid. I’ve avoiding sharing my ideas. I’ve avoided pushing myself forward. I’ve felt like I wasn’t cut out for success. I even stayed in a toxic business partnership far too long because I was more comfortable hiding in the background.
It was only when I realised that my shyness and my little voice are part of who I am that I was able to create a vision of success that works for me.
I’ve discovered two truths:
Being yourself is the only way to succeed in life.
The only person who can get in the way of your success is YOU.
Imagine…
You’re
When you speak, people listen – with anticipation!
You say “YES!” to opportunities that would have terrified you before.
You stand up for what you believe.
You feel valued, respected, and appreciated.
You know your strengths and are excited to build on them.
You no longer feel like you have to be like other people – you can be yourself and still do big things!
In fact, those big goals (and the things you have to do to make them a reality) don’t even phase you anymore! You know it’s just a matter of taking it one step at a time. Instead of being held back by limiting beliefs, you’re making conscious steps forward.
Above all you’re free. Free from stress and fear.
Free from limiting decisions.
Free to achieve big things.
Free to be yourself.
Free to pursue your vision of success.
JOIN THE SHY AND MIGHTY SOCIETY
Just £29.99 per month
Weekly live group coaching calls with Nadia – over zoom to keep you motivated and on track
Online program and app with weekly workbooks designed to help you be more mighty
Weekly virtual co-working sessions help you focus, stay accountable and stop procrastinating!
Make friends with other shy people who are also on a journey to mightiness in our Facebook group
That’s why I’m not here to lecture you, boss you around, patronise you, or force you to do things that you’re uncomfortable with.
I know that you need gentle support and encouragement to coax you out of the shadows and towards your goals.
Recently, I was invited to give a talk to hundreds of teenage girls at a big conference. The topic: my journey from little voice to big impact. In that moment, I realised that sharing my story could help a lot of people. What’s more, people don’t often hear the big stories shy people have because we’re usually off somewhere hiding!
I realised that if I could bring myself to talk to hundreds of teenage girls… then I should take my mission a step further.
So, I created Shy and Mighty to help shy people of all ages overcome their self-consciousness and self-doubt and to give them the courage to share their ideas and talents so that they can achieve big things in their own unique way.
I know what you’re thinking ….
Whatever she’s on about … it won’t work for me because I am too shy, I’m too stuck and I just can’t do it.
If it was that simple, everyone would be confident.
How is this different from any of those courses and programs I’ve seen online?
“I love being part of the Shy and Mighty Society because it’s a safe and friendly network of like-minded people who share in the struggle of ‘putting yourself out there’. I have received great advice and fantastic support which has enabled me to gradually step out of my comfort zone little by little. I’ve learnt a lot about myself through activity sheets, goal setting exercises, creating plans, regular journaling and the brilliant coaching calls. Nadia is so supportive and motivating – she makes you feel like you can achieve anything!
When I first joined, I was hiding away from the world and letting opportunities pass me by. Even though this felt safe it left me feeling unfulfilled and that I wasn’t reaching my full potential. As someone who has always been on the quieter side, especially in groups, I found that I was becoming ashamed of my shyness and longed to be different.
Now I’ve realised that although I may sometimes be quieter than other people, I’m actually ok with it, I still have a lot to offer and there can even be positive sides to being a quieter person. I now feel that I ‘own’ my shyness and am more willing to work with it rather than trying to get rid of it. By taking baby steps and setting realistic goals I’ve been able to take positive action and become more involved with things that I enjoy.
If you’re a shy person and you feel it’s holding you back, I would recommend joining the Shy and Mighty Society so that you too can learn that being shy doesn’t mean that you can’t be successful. It’s an opportunity to be part of a supportive environment and a place to pick up loads of tips and tools to help manage those times when you feel that your shyness is holding you back from being your best self.”
Designed by a shy person for shy people
Shycology
The Shy and Mighty Society follows my super simple, six-step Shycology system to help you step out of the shadows and overcome your shyness so you can achieve the big success you’re dreaming of, without scaring yourself senseless or pretending to be something you’re not.
JOIN THE SHY AND MIGHTY SOCIETY
Just £29.99 per month
“Nadia is the epitome of shy and mighty. She walks her talk and understands the complexities of being shy and a naturally introvert. Nadia also shines a different light on the “quiet ones” and is able to reframe shyness. This has enabled me to stop using it to self-berate and mentally beat myself up.
The ones who talk the loudest aren’t always right – and although we’re quiet, we’re not dumb – we’re taking it all in and mentally working out solutions and considering various scenarios so that when we do speak-up it’s of value. Nadia has enabled me to see this as the shy-persons superpower.
She gently nudges and reframes things such as changing being “visible” (which is such a loaded word and feels like being shoved on stage at Wembley Arena expected to “perform”) into “showing-up”, much less scary and showing-up can be as small or big as I’m ready for.
Nadia is compassionate and passionate about how the “quiet ones” can make a big impact on the world – one conversation, email, blog post at a time. She is mighty in her passion for helping others – and she has enabled me to focus on my desire to help others and use that as my focus when “showing-up”. I’m not competing with the loud-ones, my style is just as valid, and in some ways, very much needed by those who find the loud-ones scary!
The more I show-up in the Shy and Mighty Society, the more I gain (or should I say the mightier I become). Nadia will notice when you’re hiding – and just give that nudge for you to come out from your hiding place.
It really is a safe place for the shy-ones to meet and support each other and have those face-palm moments knowing that the other members totally get where you’re coming from. No fan-fair entrance required, just come in and take a seat.”
How will my life change?
No more lurking in the shadows of your potential.
No more allowing your fears and worries to control you.
No more sitting on the outside watching other people shine.
From the moment you join the Shy and Mighty Society you’re going to start taking little steps forward in your own way, until you are:
- braver and more confident
- more comfortable in your own skin
- being seen and heard
- able to enjoy social situations more
- saying yes to exciting opportunities
- enjoying a richer range of experiences
- able to articulate what you want and need
- able to stand up for yourself
- getting the recognition you deserve
- having more fun
- show up as yourself instead of trying to be someone else
- living at the centre of your life, instead of the periphery
- achieving your own version of success
Joining the Shy and Mighty Society will give you:
- Advice and support from an experienced shyness coach
- Reassurance and encouragement from people who can relate to your struggle
- Encouragement to keep moving forward
- Useful tools to help you handle uncomfortable situations
- Motivation and support to share ideas
- Help to achieve success in your own quiet way
JOIN THE SHY AND MIGHTY SOCIETY
Just £29.99 per month
More questions?
If you have any questions that haven’t been answered above, please email nadia@shyandmighty.com
You’re right for the Shy and Mighty Society if…
o You’re a shy person at any stage of your life or work
o You’re up for supporting and encouraging others who struggle with shyness
o You’re ready to take a positive can-do approach
o You’re open to learning new things
o You’re ready to do the work!
Burning Questions
How long does the membership last?
How does it differ from other programs or memberships?
Shy and Mighty is the only online coaching program designed by a shy person specifically to help shy people achieve big success in their life and work.
Will you be there to answer my questions?
Yes! I’ll host all our group coaching sessions and open-door sessions live. Outside those times, I’ll answer your questions, but it may take me a little longer to get back to you.