Helping shy kids to work with their shyness, build courage and resilience, and be more confident and comfortable with who they are.


Just £9 per month

Are you worried your kid is too shy?

That they’re missing out on fun because they’re too shy to join in? 

That they’re missing out on opportunities because they’re too shy to speak up?

A quick Google on the word ‘shyness’ reveals a pretty miserable outlook on their future career and mental health, plus the occasional implication that it’s all down to parenting (not at all helpful).

Is there a cure? How do we fix it?

Are they doomed to a life of unhappiness and frustration?

OK – let’s take a breath and all calm down a bit.

Hi, I’m Nadia – and I’m a shy kid who became a shy + mighty adult.

I help shy people to step out of the shadows so that they can lead happier and more fulfilled lives. 

I’ve been interviewed on Radio 4 about the impact of shyness, and featured in the Guardian,  I have a publishing deal to write a book about shyness and I am the host of the Shy + Mighty podcast.

I am a shyness expert (and you can imagine what courage it took for me, as a shy person, to claim that title).

Nadia Finer Shycology

The existing research on shyness painted a pretty bleak picture, so I commissioned my own survey to see if being shy really did negatively impact on how much someone enjoyed their life.

This is what 68,789 responses revealed:

  • 32% of people described themselves as shy
  • Outgoing people are 45% more likely than shy people to work in a higher managerial role
  • Outgoing people are more than twice as likely than shy people to have a household income of over £100K
  • Only 4.9% of shy people are very happy
  • Shy people are half as likely to be very happy than outgoing people
  • Shy people are more than twice as likely than outgoing people to be very unhappy.

Let me summarise those numbers…

Shyness reduces our chance of a happy life.

Do we need to eradicate shyness to improve our quality of life? NO!

Shyness is a part of our personality. When we learn to embrace it, and work with it (instead of constantly trying to hide or fight it) it’s possible to live a happy, fulfilling life.

Because of my work with shy adults, and as an official ambassador for Girlguiding, I’m often asked about how to best support shy kids.

And that’s why I got to work and built something really special just for shy kids; the Mighty Mob. 

The Mighty Mob is an online program of activities for kids who identify as shy, and who want to feel braver, more able to speak-up, more able to join-in, and more comfortable being themselves.


Just £9 per month

Here’s how it works… 


Every other week you’ll download a new Mighty Mission. These are tasks designed to stretch the courage of our Mobsters, and are things that can be incorporated into everyday life.

You’ll be invited to check in with me after every few workbooks and show me what you’ve been working on.

The missions help the Mobster notice week-on-week how much they’ve progressed, by successfully completing these tiny, manageable acts of courage.

Let’s turn that shyness comfort blanket into a cape.

I’m here to help your kid work with their shyness, not overcome, eradicate or cure it.

To help them take control of their shyness so they are not controlled by it.

The Mighty Mob will challenge your child to work with their shyness.

To take tiny brave steps to join in and speak up, while acknowledging that it takes courage to do so.



Just £9 per month

The Mighty Mob will help your kid …

Feel happier and more confident
Become more resilient and better able to handle difficult situations
Feel comfortable speaking up in class and sharing their ideas and opinions
Become braver and more inclined to embrace uncertainty and new situations
Stop comparing themselves to others and finally feel comfortable being themselves
Understand their shyness and take steps to overcome the aspects of shyness that are holding them back
Improve their social skills and find it easier to socialise and make friends
Say yes to opportunities and take part in activities
Feel understood and supported

“We are loving the Mighty Mob! One child, who was a selective mute is now, after 6 years, finally talking in school! It’s a massive breakthrough but I know that coming to the club has helped with this as it gives her a safe space and a little more spring in her step each week.” 


How do we take part?

Each week your mobster will head over to the Mighty Mob online portal

Download your fortnightly Mighty Mission activity sheets

Print off your missions and get going!
Each activity takes around one hour to complete – over the course of the week
Take little steps forward to becoming more mighty, day by day, week by week. 
Your mobster will feel supported and understood
Your mobster will feel more mighty by the day!
Mob computer


Just £9 per month

“The Mighty Mob has been a fantastic way to help boost the confidence of some of the shyer children in my class. As a Year 6 teacher, I wanted a way to help the children find their voice and inner quiet confidence before they moved to secondary school. After only a few weeks of sessions, I noticed a huge difference in their confidence to use their voice when they wanted to. As we worked through the sessions, they developed a sense of knowing that shyness is not a weakness, but a gift that gives them qualities that others may not have. One of the children summed this up perfectly; “Though she be but little, she is fierce!”

Ms Cottee



What age range is the Mighty Mob designed for?

The Mighty Mob is designed for kids in years 4-6. However, if your child is younger, and you’re available to assist your child, the activities will be extremely beneficial. For older children we recommend the SHINE program.

How long does the program run for?

There are 32 Mighty Missions. Missions will be released every week or so. 

Can my kid do the activities on their own?

We suggest that each Mighty Mobster has a Mighty Mate to support them with their missions – whether that’s a friend, a parent, a guardian, or a teacher.

What if we change our mind?

The Mighty Mob membership is paid monthly, and you can cancel at any time. 

I'm interested in the Mighty Mob for my school....

We do offer a school licence. Please email for information. 

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